Yeah, I've got that same diagram in my Haynes--trouble is I'm not sure which numbers on the relay in the diagram go to which prongs on the relay in my hand. I can play with running 12V through it and seeing what makes clicks and whatnot but that's really just risking an electrical fire under 6 gallons of gasoline
Call me Mel. Some years ago- never mind how long precisely- having little or no money in my purse, and nothing particular to interest me at home, I thought I would ride about a little and see the other parts of the world. It is a way I have of driving off the spleen and regulating the circulation.