road less traveled
I am sorry for your loss. There are some very well thought out replies here, along with some replies from the soul.
If the tables were turned what would your advice be to him? Yes, I've been there(38 yrs ago).
The cold morning has broken and the warm sun is shining through the clouds. The bike is packed. Ugh! -the last swallow of lukewarm coffee, as finally I quit shaking. Let's go bro - our miles are all ahead of us!