Hey guys, im just posting an update.
With the awesome help of Walter, my wire unplugging worked like a charm! I haven't blown a fuse yet, no issues with the starter not drawing enough or drawing to much. New batt is holding in strong, so everything seems just right!!
OK, so im confident that this wiring mod worked out for me, in my purposes/needs
Again, much thanks to ALL for input, knowledge, and help for this fiasco,