Thanks for the support.
I hope a can find a good suspension solution.
For the subframe bolt i got an engine guard that mounts to that subframe bolt and mike said he thinks its nice and strong. Does anyone know of the bottom arm of the subframe failing? The bolt on one side vibrated out on me once and the whole think got really bendy. I got a bolt and the hardware store and cut it to length to makes sure it didn't hit the chain.