I'm sure its been posted before, but I bought the warm & safe WP jacket and a set of w&s heated gloves with the remote this year and it has totally transformed riding for me.
I have been riding about 15 yrs, on all kinds of bikes, and have suffered through the winters either freezing my ass off, or wearing so much bulk that it was a pain in the ass.
I wish I would have wised up, and got the heated gear 15 yrs ago! It's expensive, but worth every penny IMHO
Calmer than you are.