JP we are a salty bunch up here!
Most of us don't really camp at those spots so its a bit tough to answer. The Nancy Lake campground is near Willow is a good spot. I don't think it has any of the things you are looking for it does get cell reception. Since a lot of people live remotely many of the local stores have shower facilities you can pay to use.
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