Never did finish the conversation, but I think you should look at a used DR200. They are dirt cheap to fix, light enough to pick up when they fall, and when she is done learning on the dirt it is street legal.
Used market is $1400-1800 with extremely low mileage. They are a bit of hens tooth to find, but definitely out there.
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